Meet Jenn Wolfe: Your Partner in Transforming Relationships and Life
Jennifer’s unique coaching approach weaves together science-backed tools to regulate the nervous system, heal trauma, and create lasting change in both life and relationships. Her clients—driven, successful individuals—learn how to stop sacrificing their mental health and relationships for success and instead prioritize their emotional well-being to thrive in all areas of life.
Jennifer’s impact is reflected not only in the extraordinary results her clients achieve but in the way she leads her own life. A successful businesswoman, she also co-runs a film production company with her husband of 18 years and is a proud mother to two boys and four fur babies. They live in their dream home in Los Angeles. She is a frequent guest speaker on podcasts and stages around the world, sharing her insights on relationships, healing, and personal growth.
For those who are ready to transform not just their relationships, but their entire lives, Jennifer offers a pathway to deep healing, lasting change, and unparalleled success. Her clients leave with more than just improved relationships—they emerge with a newfound sense of purpose, fulfillment, and the tools to lead with authentic love in every area of their lives.
Work with Jennifer, and discover the power of conscious love and success.
Credentials:
Bachelor of Arts in Sociology
University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA)Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology
Emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy, Professional Clinical Counseling, and Depth Psychology (Pacifica Graduate Institute)Wayfinder Life Coach Training
Completed under the guidance of renowned life coach Martha Beck
Jenn’s Story
What If Perfect Love Can’t Be Achieved by “Doing Everything Right”?
I used to think that if I did everything “right,” life would work out exactly as planned. I knew how to succeed: set a goal, obsess over it, and achieve it. So when I got married, I approached it with the same mindset, thinking that if I showed up as the “perfect wife,” happiness would naturally follow. But I was also hiding a side of myself—the anxious, vulnerable part. I grew up thinking showing my flaws would only lead to rejection, so I hid them away and tried to be everything my husband could possibly want. But all that striving only led to heartbreak and betrayal.
The Wake-Up Call
By the end of our first year of marriage, all my efforts to be “perfect” had backfired in a way I never expected. My husband—an avoidant partner who needed space and independence—started to withdraw, and the harder I tried to hold on, the more he pulled away. Divorce papers were on the table. I was devastated and confused, wondering how everything had gone so wrong when I thought I was doing everything “right.”
That’s when I realized that my anxious attachment style had led me to cling to this idea of perfect love, fueling my need to fix everything and avoid vulnerability. In trying to be someone I thought I “should” be, I’d completely abandoned myself. I’d hidden the messy, real parts of me in hopes of “earning” love, but that only pushed my husband further away. As I lost myself, I lost the connection that kept our relationship strong.
The Trap of the “Happily Ever After” Story
Like so many of us, I’d grown up with the idea that happiness was something outside of me—a perfect partner, a fairytale ending, a happily ever after. But that kind of thinking is a trap, especially for those with anxious or avoidant attachment styles. It tells us that real happiness can be found only if we can get someone else to “complete” us. The truth? Real happiness and real love start within. Only by being the truest, most authentic version of ourselves—including the anxious parts and the things we hide—can we magnetize the connection we crave.
Finding the Key in the Shadows
Here’s what I discovered: all those parts of me I was avoiding—my anxiety, my fears of abandonment, my struggles with self-worth—held the real key to happiness. I had to stop running from those parts and start healing them. It wasn’t easy. The path was messy, dark, and full of old wounds, but it was in this journey that I found my way back to myself. By facing my own shadows and doing the inner work, I discovered a deeper kind of love, a love that didn’t depend on perfection but on authenticity and connection.
A New Path: Consciously Ever After
When I finally let go of being the “perfect” wife and started accepting myself, anxious attachment and all, something shifted. I found something better than any fairytale—I found the real me. I stopped clinging to my husband out of fear and started building a life rooted in my own strength and authenticity. That’s when everything changed. My marriage, my purpose, my whole life became deeper, richer, and more aligned. This isn’t just a “happily ever after”—it’s my Consciously Ever After, where love feels real because it’s built on a foundation of self-acceptance and courage.